FAQ
General questions
What is special about ilkane mentalcoaching & law?
The field of labor law is as exciting and real as life itself. Because in the work environment people from different social backgrounds, countries, cultures work together in a small space. This is not always free of conflict. But I believe there is a better way than having everything decided in court. We are all human beings and as such we should try to find constructive solutions. This is the interface I am working on.
What is the focus in mental coaching in employment law?
My focus is to work out with you in personal coaching in individual sessions on what challenges you currently have in your personal or professional environment. These must first be identified. Afterwards, I make a legal classification so that you can avoid (further) problems.
This applies to the immediate area of the work environment as well as to the "soft" components of the private sphere. Because life does not only consist of work ;-)
I am German and work abroad. Are you the right person for me?
Absolutely. Because everyone comes to a new country with the cultural imprint of the country in which they grew up. That brings with it many new impressions. But the psyche also has to come to terms with the fact that the rules there are different from those at home. The classic culture shock happens more often than you think. Since I grew up in Germany, but also know a second culture very well and have extensive experience abroad, I can understand many things from my own experience and thus help you with advice and support, regarding the legal settings.
I have been sent to Germany from another country (expatriate) and am now working here. Are you the right person for me?
Yes, I am. My core competencies lie exactly here - in situations where people have to find their way professionally and humanly in a new country in a new work environment with different legal components and a different culture and need well-founded support in doing so. In a few sessions we can identify the problem areas well and work on them.
I am a family member and do not (yet) work. Can I turn to you?
Absolutely. In the case of posted workers, it is often forgotten that family members often have a much more difficult time, as they have no stabilizing work environment, no one to ask, are often alone, and have no social contacts with whom they can talk openly. This is a very difficult situation, in which I am happy to accompany you, so that you can better relate to the things around you.
When is mediation useful?
Mediation is a meeting or several meetings with two parties to a conflict in order to resolve it through compromise by giving in to each other. There are proven methods for moderation and execution by a neutral person. Legal knowledge is indispensable to avoid compromises that are not legally possible.
I was posted, now I am back in my country. I'm having trouble mentally settling back in, yet it's my own country. Can you help me?
Yes, I can. The phenomenon is well known, it should not be underestimated. I have experience in this field and can bring clarity to this situation.
Is there a possibility to cover the costs?
I offer mental coaching as a private service. If you have questions that are mainly of a legal nature, then it is advisable to talk to your legal protection insurance and clarify whether it is possible to cover the costs. You may also be able to claim benefits on your tax return.
What if questions remain open or a more in-depth legal consideration is necessary?
In the initial meeting, which I offer at a reduced price as a trial, we clarify your situation and initial questions.
Afterwards, it will be decided whether you need purely legal advice or whether integrated coaching with several sessions in which I accompany you is the better way to go.
For an in-depth written legal analysis, I charge my hourly rate of 220 € (gross), and give my legal assessment.
I charge pro rata per quarter hour or part thereof. That is, if I need 1 hour and 10 minutes, I charge 220 € + 55 €.
Technical questions
Why do you only offer sessions online?
I have always enjoyed working with people from all over the world. Online you can stay exactly where you feel comfortable, safe and protected to talk about maybe difficult situations - in your home. Therefore, I work exclusively online and therefore worldwide and flexible.
What apps / programs do I need to get in touch with you?
Zoom, Viber or even messengers like Whatsapp, Telegram or Signal. However, I am also open to other transmission options. However, I no longer offer Skype due to its poor quality.
What equipment do I need?
You need an internet connection that is fast enough to transmit audio signals and ideally fast enough to transmit video signals. But you can also use a landline. With that you need: A landline phone, or an internet connection.
You need programs like Zoom, Viber or messengers like Whatsapp, Telegram or Signal. But I am also open for other transmission possibilities. Skype, however, I no longer offer because of the poor quality I experienced.
Can I do without video?
Of course! It is not a problem to speak without video transmission.
Can I do without internet?
Yes. You don't need internet. I will be happy to call you on your landline and we will conduct our session by phone and as a conversation without video.